DR. ROSE SCHLAFF (she/her) HAS BEEN FEATURED AS A SEX EXPERT IN:
YOU’RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE IF:
✅ You WANT to want more sex but you’ve noticed getting in the mood feels challenging at times
✅ You’ve tried wine, lube, new lingerie, couple’s counseling, and checking your hormones —and still felt disconnected or "off."
✅ You love your partner deeply—but intimacy has started to feel predictable, pressured, or like one more thing on your to-do list.
✅ You’re missing the days when sex felt natural, easy, fun, and exciting—and wonder if you’ll ever feel like that again.
✅ You sometimes experience discomfort or pelvic pain during intimacy—and it's taken the joy out of connecting physically.
✅ Even when sex feels "good," you catch yourself stuck in your head—wondering if your partner can tell you’re not fully there.
✅ You worry that the distance between you is starting to grow—and you hate the fear of disappointing the person you love most.
You’re not broken.
You just need a new, science-backed roadmap to reignite your desire, deepen your intimacy, and feel fully alive again.
Because when you finally understand how your brain and body are wired for desire, intimacy stops feeling like pressure—and starts feeling like pleasure, connection, and choice.
Imagine waking up excited to touch, to be touched, and to feel fully alive in your body and your relationships again.
IMAGINE HOW IT WOULD FEEL IF YOU COULD:
✅ Know exactly how to turn on your desire and arousal—whenever you wanted.
✅ Feel energized and excited by the idea of intimacy—instead of drained or stressed just thinking about it.
✅ Communicate anything, inside or outside the bedroom, with unshakable confidence—and never dread a tough conversation again.
✅ Laugh more, feel more connected, and realize you don't sweat the small stuff anymore.
✅ Catch that spark in your partner’s eyes—the same one you saw when you first fell in love—and feel a delicious tingle run through your body in anticipation of your next date night.
Because when you feel turned on, deeply connected, and fully yourself again—everything else gets easier.
✨ You show up bigger at work.
✨ You parent with more patience and joy.
✨ You move through the world with more magnetism, confidence, and ease.
This isn’t just about your sex life—
It’s about reclaiming the energy, vitality, and radiance that transforms every part of your life.
And that's exactly what we do inside Reclaim the Flame.
See What’s Possible When You Reclaim Your Flame—No Matter Where You’re Starting From
How Karson reignited her desire—and reclaimed her newly-wed pre-kid electricity
Karson (she/her) went from having difficulty reconnecting to her sexual self after having kids to feeling an electricity she hasn’t felt since she was a newlywed, pre-kids.
“One of the reasons that working with Rose is so amazing is the instant, comfort level… I was saying things out loud that I haven't ever said… Rose holds such a safe space”
After almost a decade of experience as a sexologist and pelvic therapist, I can tell you: Karson’s transformation isn’t rare.
When you have the right tools, vibrant, magnetic connection becomes your new normal.
Introducing Reclaim the Flame:
Your Step-by-Step Blueprint to Rewire Desire, Rebuild Connection, and Reignite Your Life.
For women and gender expansive folks ready to stop feeling like the spark is gone—and start feeling turned on, confident in your intimacy, and deeply connected to yourself and the people you love.
Reclaim the Flame is your step-by-step roadmap, blending neuroscience, holistic wellness, and real-world tools. Through self-paced content and expert-led group calls you’ll learn science-backed strategies to increase libido, strengthen connection, and reclaim a life that feels vibrant, sexy, and deeply satisfying.
This is where science meets sexy, trauma-informed meets turned-on, and you finally feel like yourself again.
Here’s what you’ll unlock inside Reclaim the Flame:
✅ Rewire Your Body and Brain for Desire:
Learn science-backed strategies to reawaken your nervous system’s natural pathways to pleasure, connection, and vitality.
✅ Strengthen Confidence and Connection:
Use proven communication frameworks and embodied practices to rebuild trust, intimacy, and emotional closeness — with yourself and others.
✅ Overcome Stress, Shame, and Shutdown:
Release the hidden barriers that have been holding you back and activate the mind-body systems that fuel turn-on, playfulness, and deep satisfaction.
✅ Create a Life That Turns You On:
Infuse your daily routines with nervous system regulation, nutrition, circadian health, pleasure practices, and emotional resilience tools that actually work — and feel good doing it.
🌟 Whether you’ve been feeling disconnected, anxious, "not like yourself lately", or just wanting more
Reclaim the Flame offers a clear, compassionate, proven path back to vibrancy, pleasure, and deep connection.
👇 Spots are limited. Join the VIP waitlist today to unlock early enrollment discounts, exclusive bonuses, and first access when Reclaim the Flame opens!
You deserve more than just getting by.
You’re meant to feel alive, connected, and fully yourself — without guilt, pressure, or exhaustion.
With the right support, simple science-backed tools, and a safe space to reconnect to your desires, change isn’t just possible — it’s inevitable.
And the best part?
You don’t have to do it alone.
Here’s a glimpse of what’s possible when you have the right support by your side.
CYNTHIA
Cynthia went from having to amp herself up all day to get herself to initiate sex to feeling comfort, joy, and excitement in bed and deepening her connection to her partner even outside physical intimacy.
“I just feel like a completely different person when it comes to my sex life. All thanks to this program… It truly is life-changing. I don't think it's something I ever could have done on my own. ” - Cynthia
TAYLOR
Taylor went from feeling a knee-jerk negative reaction to anything sexual to experiencing the best sex of her life.
“It was just a wonderful group of people…Working with Rose, I mean, you'll never regret it…It's just magic.” - Taylor
You’re not broken.
You’re not too late.
You’re not too far gone.
You’re human — and your desire, your vitality, and your connection are still within reach.
You don’t have to settle for disconnection.
You don’t have to keep waiting for "someday."
You can start now — and I’ll walk with you every step of the way.
Doors open soon — and spots (and bonuses!) are limited. Don’t miss your chance to reignite your flame.
ABOUT DR. ROSE SCHLAFF, DPT, WHC, IF
Dr. Rose Schlaff (she/her) created Be Well with Rose, LLC to help women and LGBTQIA+ leaders overcome overwhelm so they can reignite their spark, step into their power and reclaim pleasure in and out of the bedroom.
After years of clinical experience as a Sex Counselor and Pelvic Physical Therapist working with the world-renowned Sexual Medicine Physician, Dr. Irwin Goldstein, Dr. Rose saw that in order to improve your sex life and strengthen your relationship(s), it’s important to take a holistic approach that addresses the unique intersectionalities of your identity and looks at the physical, emotional, cultural, societal, interpersonal and behavioral factors that impact connection, desire, and pleasure.
She speaks nationally and internationally as a sex expert on the topics of sexuality, relationships, communication, pleasure, and pelvic health and works with individuals and couples all over the world as a Sexologist. You may not have heard of sexology before, it’s the study of human sexuality.
Dr. Rose is all about creating simple daily rituals informed by physiology and sexy science to teach you how to amplify your desire and arousal so you can feel confident, connected, and carefree in your relationship, both in and out of the bedroom.
In addition to her practice as a Sexologist, she leads group coaching programs that help women and LGBTQ leaders step into powerful pleasure in their life, work and relationships.
Dr. Rose has been published in the Journal of Women’s Health Physical Therapy and has presented trainings for medical doctors, health care professionals, therapists, business owners, and other professionals all over the world at institutions like UCSD Medical School, Kaiser Permanente, Naval Medical Center, Alvarado Hospital, University of Michigan’s Sexual Health Certificate Program, San Diego State University’s Marriage and Family Therapy Program, Pelvic Floor Sexual Medicine Provider Meeting and abroad in Kerala, India, and Beijing, China.
Looking for 1:1 support? Click below to schedule your FREE strategy call with Sex Counselor and Pelvic Therapist, Dr. Rose so you can release stress around sex, rekindle your relationship spark and connect more deeply in and out of the bedroom.
How Sarah went from avoiding sex to looking forward to intimacy
Sarah (she/her) went from dreading sex to looking forward to connecting physically and feeling unshakeable confidence in her ability to talk openly about sex.
“Oh my god it’s so worth the effort to do this work…it's so worth it and you are quite honestly so amazing to work with it. I can't imagine going through this process with another person… this made such an impact in my life”