is Your Libido feeling like a Mystery?
Unlock Your Unique Desire STYLE.
Frustrated by a desire that feels unpredictable, sluggish, or like it's gone into hiding? You're not alone. It's time to understand how your libido actually works.
Discover your Libido Archetype with this free, insightful quiz and learn what truly fuels your desire, based on neuroscience and compassionate self-understanding. Stop working against your body and brain, and start nurturing your unique flame.
Does This Sound Familiar?
Does your desire seem to appear (or disappear) without warning?
Do you wonder why "standard" advice about libido doesn't seem to work for you?
Do you sometimes feel out of sync with your partner(s) or even your own body?
Are you tired of feeling like your desire is "broken" or "too complicated"?
Do you crave a deeper understanding and more compassion for your own erotic nature?
If you nodded yes to any of these, you're in the right place.
Imagine Feeling...
Clear about what genuinely turns you on and what dampens your desire.
Empowered with personalized strategies to nurture your unique libido style.
Confident in communicating your needs and desires.
Compassionate towards yourself, understanding that there's no "right" or "wrong" way to experience desire.
More Connected to your body and your capacity for pleasure and intimacy.
This quiz is the first step on that journey.
Meet Your Libido Archetype: Clarity & Compassion Awaits
The "Decode Your Desire: What’s Your Libido Archetype?" quiz isn't just another online quiz. It’s a doorway to profound self-understanding.
Based on Dr. Rose Schlaff’s neuroscience-backed, trauma-informed framework, Reclaim the Flame™, this quiz will help you:
Identify Your Primary Libido Archetype: Are you a Spark, a Slow Burn, an Ember, or a Rooted Flame?
Understand How Your Libido Actually Works: Go beyond myths and discover your unique patterns.
Pinpoint What Fuels YOU: Learn the specific ingredients that awaken and sustain your desire.
Support Your Libido with Self-Compassion: Embrace your style and learn to work with it.
There’s no one-size-fits-all model of turn-on. It’s time to discover yours.
Ready to Decode Your Desire? It's Easy:
Take the Quiz: Answer 6 insightful questions about your experiences with desire (it only takes a few minutes!).
Discover Your Archetype: Instantly receive your primary Libido Archetype and a summary of what it means.
Unlock Your Free Toolkit: Get your personalized "Decode Your Desire Toolkit" packed with somatic practices, communication prompts, and neuroscience-backed strategies tailored to your unique style.
Stop Guessing, Start Understanding.
Your desire isn’t a problem to be solved; it’s a part of you to be understood and nurtured. Take the first step towards a more fulfilling and compassionate relationship with your libido today.
You deserve to feel good, understood, and alive in your erotic self.
💖 Ready to Go Deeper?
While the quiz and toolkit are powerful starting points, true transformation often blossoms with dedicated guidance and community. If you're looking to integrate these insights more fully, explore our programs:
Join the Reclaim the Flame™ Group Coaching Program Rediscover your spark, reconnect with your body, and reclaim joy in intimacy—on your own terms. This is for you if you're ready to move from insight to lasting integration and experience profound shifts in your relationship with desire.
🎓 Are you a provider? Train with me in neuroscience-based holistic sexual wellness and learn how to decode desire for your clients. Elevate your practice with a comprehensive, trauma-informed framework that goes beyond surface-level tips, enabling you to facilitate true healing and reclamation for those you serve.